I'm new to the boards, but I just wanted to say I totally empathize with the whole "you should have made these changes a year ago" and with H being done now and not believing that you want him. I've been experiencing something so similar and just separated from my H about a month ago. Not gonna lie, the separation is so difficult, and I wish I had words of advice, but I just wanted to say, I feel ya.
Jacket
Me: 35, H: 37, no kids Together since 2002, Married since 2007 IDKIILY: 2/2013 MC: 5/2013-6/2014 H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014 I moved out 7/6/14 H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me
