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My God, some of the stuff I read about that some folks on this board go through - really, impossible for me. I guess I just think I deserve better, time's a wastin', and a person shouldn't treat me this way, MLC or not.


I think we all believe we deserve better. And yes we should not be treated this way. Good thoughts, but where exactly does that leave you? Life is the way it is, and the thing to do is to focus on getting the deal you want from the divorce. This will matter down the line.

Are you interested in the idea of ever reconciling or is the hurt too deep for you?

This horrible process can be transformed into a journey of greater self knowledge, learning who we really are and what we want and what we stand for.

Anger is a good and proper emotion, but not a place to get stuck. Of course you are angry, but what comes next?