Pilot, I feel for you brother. You have posted on my sitch and I have appreciated it. A few books that really have helped me by Gary smalley.if he only new understanding your wife and the other is Joy that last. These books are inspiring and may give you a boost. I have been dealing with my sitch since late jan. Similar stuff married 17yrs 3 little kids. The one thing that has helped me is getting rid of all my anger. I don't know if my sitch has changed for the better recently or not. Time will tell. My wife has started talking a little bit more last 10 days. It was 2 weeks ago I blew up on her and finally decided to forget about her. Her A if still going on is her problem not mine. I have 3 great kids and have been a super dad last 6 months. I have a new faith in God. New motto what matters to God matters. Live well pilot and your reward will come. Remember carma is real. Your w will wake up some day and will realize what she lost. Maybe you will be there to catch her and maybe you wont.


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14