The way I see it, I married her for better or for worse and it can't get much worse than this. Hopefully with time it gets better.

I heard someone say once, there's no situation so bad that you can't make it worse. So by sticking to Sandi's rules, at least I'm not making it worse. Even keeping it in the current status quo of limbo just means I need patience to accept the current condition and let things unfold as they will.

I do know that there are things I can do to shift someone else's thinking - instead of pushing the buttons that deteriorate the sitch, I'll choose to push the buttons that improve it.

Last edited by PeterV2; 08/12/14 04:02 AM.
M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014