Doing all right

[BrightFuture]

Job, it is always so comforting to read your responses. I suppose I’m lucky to not witness the craziness that I read about on other threads. Except the luck of it makes me doubt that he is in MLC sometimes. I’m not too concerned about his name still on some items, I’m just curious.

Matt, I admire your understanding of your W’s childhood issues, your patience and mature way to look at things. I agree and disagree with what you said. Yes, it was H’s issue to feel insecure and intimidated. Yes, nobody is perfect and spouses should feel safe to be themselves in a relationship. I didn’t do harmful things on purpose, but I could have taken H’s feelings into consideration in a lot of cases. The problem was that we didn’t know how to communicate our feelings in a healthy way. I hope I’ve learnt from this whole ordeal and I will be able to apply what I learnt to my future R, whether it with H or not.

Thanks for reminding me that H’s choice is H’s choice and not my fault.