Found out a couple of days ago that ex is now seeing the woman (his co-worker Bethany) that I had suspected all along that he was having an EA with. He told me over the phone that he was going to introduce the kids to her, and they would start doing stuff together, with her and her kids. It's not a huge shock. What he originally told me was that he had just fallen out of love with me, but there was no one else. I never totally bought that.
So now I am left with a lot of questions, about timing while we were working on things, and what the true and real story actually is. But, does any of that really matter, even? Is it totally irrelevant? Do I just move forward without a second thought? I mean, it doesn't really matter now? Is it going to hurt more to know the truth? Or am I forever going to be wondering what the heck happened. For closure's sake do I need to know?
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
