Thank you for your responses, it always helps. I forget there is a lot going on in that mind of his. For years I didn't know how hurt he was feeling, so why would I know now? In reading Raine's post, she brought up several times that reconciliation was happening with no talk of it, just actions. My H is showing many positive actions, yet I get antsy and want to push him forward already and get on with this! But I need to find a way to stop myself, when I get that urge and burst of impatience. It actually annoys myself after the fact, I can only imagine how it makes him feel. He even told me last night, "I'm trying!" Ugh, I can be such a pain sometimes...... But learning from it.

Thank you again for the reminders!!


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-