Haha. Well, I've been engaged to two women. The first one we were engaged twice.

And as for my parents...they didn't kiss, hug, adore, or fawn for as long as I've known them. They are more affectionate now as retirees, but growing up they either screamed at each other or didn't talk to each other. I grew up in an abusive, alcoholic home. My behavior as an adult is classic Adult Child of an Alcoholic stuff.

And I see a very good therapist to talk all this stuff out. I'm not entirely comfortable getting "group psycho-analyzed" here unless people are sharing their own experiences and not just analyzing mine...if you know what I mean. smile


Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14