My dad put his ring in a box the day after he married my mom and never wore it again. I grew up thinking it was normal for men not to wear rings, and though my husband's ring is a little different, I can live with his not wearing it.
In our conversation today H said he would enjoy light interactions on a date, but has an aversion to a relationship. Fine, I can live with that. However, he JUST ended things with OW and my patience is not unlimited. If he needs time that's fine but I'm not ok with more other women.
I do see your point but I've got to have SOME bottom lines or I'm going to feel like a doormat. That happens to be a big one for me.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
