So for the past week I have completely eliminated some of the behaviours/comments that typically make my wife angry or unhappy. I have also really been paying attention to what kind of mood she is in as well as what she is needing. So if she seems tired I make an extra effort to take care of the kids so she can have a nap. If she is talking about exercising I make sure to do whatever it takes so she can do that. Also have been making sure I am always well dressed and "put together". I am staying positive, no arguing or sulking. I am making sure that none of my words or actions will cause her to be angry, unhappy or push her away. I make sure to compiment her often on how good she looks or how she is dressed. Basically doing things I did when we first met to be attractive to her while still being a strong husband and not a doormat. It all is making a big difference and she is acting very warmly toward me. She is making comments on how good I look, and even being a little more affectionate. I know I have a long way to go, and there will be dips in the road, but it is amazing how good a little hope feels.
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