Actually, I think detaching in the way you are isn't going to help. Think about it this way. You think that to get her to be more physical to you, you should remove yourself physically from her. Doesn't make sense.
Forget about your "physical" LL for now. What did you do to attract your W to go out with you when you were first going out? I know it's been a long time, but it's time to do something different.
In what way have you "changed" that would make her see you as someone new?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
