His answer:

Let's talk about the more sensitive of these, but I appreciate you sending the note and want to figure out the best path forward. With regards to the washer I don't want you feel like you have to ask me that way. Of course you can get a new washer...I understand that you need one, and if it makes sense to get both a washer and a dryer at the same time please go ahead.

On the paperwork and address stuff of course that's not a problem. I'm sorry that I've made things awkward to an extent that you need to ask it that way.

The next week as I said is busy and stressful for me, but after that it should get better. Maybe we can figure out the best way to find some time to talk about some of this constructively in person.

Sorry it's been such a wreck.


I feel kind of sick. I don't want to be legally separated. It's a one-year wait in our state for divorce, so we have a ton of time and I don't want to have to worry about house and finance any time soon. I haven't been wasting money and he hasn't really been spending any either other than supporting our households. I really just wanted to confirm the status quo and relieve my mind.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.