I am NOTHING like his mother, nor am I like the nuns who raised him in the orphanage. But there is some stuff he says and does that I swear feels like he is responding to those women and not to me, funny Goat Gal.
As you know, our FOO issues do influence and shape us. However, learned behaviors can be unlearned. They don't have to be a life sentence, ya know.
This is very interesting. For the most part, nuns represent the most repressed model in organized religion and sexuality isn't brought up...if ever! Only if to make babies.
I do wonder if growing up in that environment made H seek out porn subconsciously as a way to work through his repressed sexual feelings because he didn't have any healthy models growing up on what constitutes a healthy relationship.
For eons, we're taught not to masturbate or take sexual pleasure in lovemaking for the pure pleasure of it instead of the procreation business. Goodness! No wonder the lot of the HuMan race is seriously messed up!
