Dealing with ongoing affair -which may now be over

[PeterV2]

I haven't heard from W in 2 days.

So earlier today I sent her a text saying I haven't heard a word from you in 2 days, and I'm a little worried. Are you ok?

So just now I got a text from the staff member at the RH who is doing the night shift in W's absence saying W texted her and to pass the message on that she's ok.

I find it strange that she didn't respond to my text saying she's ok but went through the staffer. I guess she just wants NC with me while she's away. I have no idea where she is.

I know I just need to detach and GAL, but I thought we were progressing fairly well, until the flood at least, when she said she's done.

I'm in a bit of a panic. This is very difficult.