I am meeting with my db coach on Wednesday and my therapist on Thursday. Both seem to think that the best thing that I can do us to NOT do certain things. Don't do or say anything that will lead to a fight or argument. Don't do anything that creates a negative environment. Just have PMA, be pleasant, be a great father and continue with my consistent changes.
Total agreement but like I say, if & when the time comes for you to feel conflicted about the advice you get here, versus your DB Coaches, I always say go with the Coach. We are not the experts; they are.
They are trained, we are not.
The coaches have all the same information we have, PLUS more, and they are far less likely to let their own experiences or opinions bias their answers, whereas we can do that, usually not consciously. And you can be sure you're following the MWD advice/path.
(Of course, if you tell them something different than you tell us, that's on you).
But it sure makes it a lot easier for YOU to stay on track to know who the "Captain" is, IF there is conflict.
There were a few times my DB coach did not agree with what the posters said, (or some of my posters). At those times, I always went with my DB coaches' advice, and I never once regretted it.
Hang in there. And btw, I'm very confident I am not your mil b/c none of my kids are married yet...
So there's that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
