My point? Even if you somehow won him back now, what have you won? A deceitful serial adulterer that you could never trust again??? That's no life, and you deserve better.
Once I realized that about my ex....first time could be a careless mistake, second time we could work through, but a third time? That's a character flaw that's not about to change.
x 2.
I know that's not what you want to hear, Tea, but serial adulterers have about a 99% recidivism rate. I'm as pro-marriage as anyone on here, but serial adultery and full-blown NPD or bi-polar disorders are things that are best run from, in my experience.