Here is another dilemma we're facing. We've had our acreage listed for sale for the past 3 months and we have not had one single showing. It doesn't sound like we've even had an inquiry. We're going to change up our listing and lower our price again so that may help, we'll see.

Here's the problem. If the property does not sell my W and I are in a very tough way financially if she continues to insist on staying in her province. If she were to come back to my province I could likely afford to keep our acreage and our financial woes would be solved.

Should I ask my W once again if she will consider moving back to my province? I wouldn't be asking her to move back with me, just to the same area where we made our life. It would be the best thing for she and I as well as for our kids. Her parents seem to be the only thing that is keeping her in the other province. She does have a good job there as well but I'm sure she could get an even better position back here.

I had asked her previously if she would move back and she said NO. That was before we had made the progress that we had in our relationship and before facing the issue of our place not selling. She may be forced to face the possibility that our place just won't sell and that she might have to move back anyway.

Should I ask her again to move back?


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS