I feel for you, and I admire that you are trying to make changes and be a better person and wife. The consistency is the thing, so just keep going.
Also you know what the vets always say on here, don't believe anything you hear. He hasn't filed for D and whatever reasons he is giving don't matter so much. Just keep on moving forward, focus on yourself, keep those changes going.
Your best friend right now is time and space. Give him as much space as you can. Just let him be alone to process his feelings and how it is to be away from you and your d. The more space and time you give him, the better. Continue to work on yourself and try to be positive and strong when you see or speak to him, which I am sure you will because of your d.
By the way, it sounds to be like you handled his venting really well. You should pat yourself on the back for that one! Good job!
Good luck and come back here to let us know how it goes today. We are here for you! Hugs, Lisa
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
