Yep, that's some tough love right there. I am turning it over every minute of every day. I come here to bitch about it because my friends are all done hearing about it. I hope this remains a safe place to vent and learn without getting beat up TOO much. smile

I'd also love to hear more from men who have repaired their R after an affair like this. I'm beginning to wonder if it's even possible.


Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14