Ox,

Originally Posted By: Oxford1
I have a timeframe in mind and fully intend to put my foot down.


^^ You've been saying this for eons. Chit now or get off the pot.

Bond
Starsky
Indigo
Train

All these four DBers put in healthy and firm boundaries on the OM/OW. They consistently enforced it day in and day out. Their outcomes? Affairs busted and happily restored marriages.

Are they all wrong here??!!