We had a few brief talks. I asked him if he will live like a married man.
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H: well I am not going to have any relationships. I don't know about one night stands and I will want to go out and have people over. You used to control me and even question me when I was out with work people.
. . . Me: I do know however that any kind of outside relationship, one night stand or not, would be a boundary for me. Your feelings matter and you are a priority, and my feelings matter and I am a priority too. I will not want people in my life that hurt me, my kids or my marriage.
Attagirl, Busting. I'm proud of how you stuck to your boundary, no matter how tempting this new warming of his is. Don't waver on this.
To be honest, his "one-night-stand" comment shocked me.
