1. Does Either family know about your past with the prostitutes?
2. How have you changed, and can you please list specific behaviors or actions that you have changed?
NOT things that you "won't do again" but that you have already stopped doing AND OR changed.
And
3. how have your attitudes or opinions changed? Have they?
1. People who know: Both sets of parents, my brother, my best friend, two of her friends, one of her cousins.
2. Things I've changed: - Much more thoughtful with regard to sharing workload around the house, especially to give her more free time to herself and w/ the kids. - Stopped criticizing her A, the OM. - Much more thoughtful and respectful to her parents.
3. In the beginning, there was a lot of fear and anger (towards her and the OM). The anger has been almost completely eliminated, but the fear has not (entirely). I'm fearful of a future without her by my side. I'm fearful of the effects this will have on my children. I'm fearful about the inevitability of losing my house, and possibly being forced to relocate 2000 miles away from home away from my family, my friends, and the place I called home for 37 years.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
