Weekend is over and what a weekend Friend over Friday – we talked and enjoyed ourselves until late. Saturday I had 20 guys over for a long day and night. Everything went great. Sunday I cleaned the house and surroundings, did an hour of exercise and then crashed on the sofa.
Today I went to Ws place to have breakfast before taking the girls to the first day at school/kindergarten after the holiday. It went just fine. Good talk and good time. I overheard D7 talking about a family birthday at MIL. W texted me about this about a month ago but I haven’t replied since we haven’t talked. (Ws wish is that I wait on things like this) As I understood D7 she said they were going but Ds are at my place. So I called W and we had a talk about this. W actually agreed that when the Ds are at one place it is important that we do not pick them up and take them back and forth. That’s totally new – normally me saying no to things like this have made her angry. She might have reacted this way because she didn’t plan on taking the Ds anyway but in the general talk about this she agreed to my POV. I have experienced this more than once during the past 2,3 or 4 months. That is W changing her views from her originally to one closer to mine. At the end of the convo she reminded me that we need to have the evaluation talk soon and I believe it will be next week.
Two small incidents for my journal. MIL bought a present for S11 when she was on vacation with W and Ds
Last time when I sat the Ds off at Ws place W called afterwards and asked about a certain CD that D7 likes. I told her and said something like “You will love it!”. It is NOT Ws type of music. That ended up with a little humorous texting.
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
