Lisa, I have had those thoughts too. I think it's the shock wearing off and our sense of worth re asserting itself. I'm not completely sure I can get over it but I'd like the opportunity to give it an honest try. Occasionally I see glimmers of the guy I married in the remote person who left me and it's worth the effort for that guy.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15