I'm with claire7, I think they do it out of fear you will say no and they will look weak. But like the others, I agree that you shouldn't go if you don't want to. And I think a true invitation is always the best kind, and worth waiting for.

Maybell you sound strong! Sorry your parents aren't being supportive but at least your siblings are.

Hugs, Lisa B

Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.