"How do I discuss how things are going with me without her if she's such a big part of why I am here?"
Because she SHOULDN'T be a big part of you being here. That's the point. Are you here to complain about your W and OM or are you here to save your M? Concentrating solely on your W and OM shackles you from doing anything else.
The only way to improve things is to focus on yourself and the GOOD things that are coming out of it. In fact, you even said your C told you you focused too much on your W. When are you going to catch the hint?
ahh thanks for clarifying . I guess I thought that I was supposed to be including things between W and me. I understand that the OM was supposed to be ignored I just did not get the not getting help with my wife .
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
