Starsky, thanks for the insight in transparency. Well, she hasn't changed cell # or email. She lets me see her login for her phone, where as before I noticed her hiding it from me. But since exposing to her about the phone records I am sure she doesn't use her phone to contact Om. W does tell me her plans for the days now more in detail. I try not to ask too much because I dont want to smother her in anyway. I feel she needs to find her Own way back to be now if that's what she wants. I can feel that she is trying, but I know we have a long way to go. Marriage counselor will be our next biggest step.

Thanks for the support and the BEST to you all.