Shining. Just caught up on your last few days. You are handling things really well. I think the biggest take away is that you have not backtracked from your focus on you.

I too have a much bigger picture of life and the place I hold in it ( and want to hold) since this whole mlc thing began. Don't lose sight of that.

I am rooting for you in every way.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15