Unless court says you have to liquidate it and split it keep it for your kids. But he will fight you tooth and nail to get his hands on That money.
But ultimately you can't control what he does with his half. Have you talked to a lawyer? He can't get that money unless you sign off right?
Just be aware things will get ugly when there is money involved. J owes me $3000 and I have gotten $100. I am not convinced I will ever see that money.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"