Mighty, no worries about taking up my thread. It is always helpful to see other stories about similar issues. It is very funny about your H wearing the pink dress shirt. My H didn’t drastically change his dress style, except he started wearing flip flops, which he would never do before.
Job, I always listen to your advice. It is like a universe is telling me what to do. Don’t want to put that much pressure on you, but it really helps to validate my thoughts when you step in. I sent him a simple thank you note in the e-mail. I don’t expect anything in return.
Ggrass, I’m sorry I am not up to date on your thread. I started reading, but didn’t have time to catch up. Your stich is fairly new. It sounds like your H is an angry man right now, especially since ow is involved. I remember in the first 6 months when I would text H about something and would not get any reply back. I thought it was rude and disrespectful. I stopped. Traveling to see ow for 2.5 hours will get old at some point. Hang in there.
So, if I would analyze things (I know it is not encouraged here), I would say that something is still stopping H from completely breaking all ties with me. This recent e-mail forward. He is no longer on that phone account, so he could have told me that I needed to remove his name and e-mail from there. He didn’t. There are a few other accounts which he receives the e-mails for and then forwards them to me. One of them is a CC card tied to Costco membership, which is also under our company name. He doesn’t use that card anymore. I know this because I get the statements. So, what prevents him from removing himself and his contact info from that card? Just a thought.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
