I don't know where to begin. I've tried through Alanon, Let Go and Let God, turning it over, Serenity Prayer, but nothing seems to work.

I get SUPER obsessed and don't know how to stop. It's part of an OLD pattern.

Me: 39 - W: 35
Together: 2 years, no kids
My Affair: 1.5 years
Affair ended: 4/9/14
Affair revealed: 5/19/14
Last Contact: 8/2/14