Shining I am feeling warm and fuzzy reading your latest updates- seriously smile

It's so interesting how really this is all about our H's forgiving and loving themselves. I think how you have handled things so far is spot on.

Do you know what your H's love language is? My H is physical touch and that's why I have chosen to continue with intimacy ( plus- let's be real- I miss it too!!).
I also try to offer hugs and brief touches here and there. Isn't it funny how much a hug can say now that we've gone through all this??!! I know my sitch is a little different as there was only EA ( as far as I know) but I sure see a difference in his ability to connect when ML is included in our interactions.

Can't wait to hear all about the demise of your H and OW as it sure seems like it's coming. I remember reading Raine had a really funny name for the OW ( twinkle twat maybe?) I'm sure you have a few choice names for the OW in your sitch but she clearly can't hold a candle to you.

Cheering for you!!


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown