Let It Go

[BklynMom]

Thanks mighty. It's nice to hear that you can relate to my posts. It really gives me a boast.

Gm I thought so much about your words "who cares if they think you are a b"

I don't know why I give a sh!t but I really feel this need to convince him I am not a b!tch. It's insane.

I have given in to him on so many things in the hope of convincing him that I am not a b!tch

I gave up alimony. I agreed to the sale of a rental property below what we owed on the mortgage - all because I didn't want to fight with him and be subtly call a b!tch for not agreeing with him

So now we have one more joint brokerage acct that he has asked me to split. I emailed back to him and said "sorry for my hesitation in getting this done but maybe could we keep the account entact and since it need both our signatures could we use it for the kids college?"

A week later he wrote back "I am not comfortable with that"

I am considering writing him back "why does that make you uncomfortable"

I really don't want to split this acct cause right now we have 30,000 for college. If we split it he will spend his half on vacations.

My xh is so so bad with money right now it's insane. Of course he blames his lack of funds on me but he pays the percentage as everyone else.

What do you guys think of that repsonse