I don't love you anymore

[nova]

Thanks for your thoughts Bob. Tbh, my W isn't what I'm hesitant about with the new position. She's already left, so I'm already Db'ing at a distance. Don't get me wrong, a part of me does wonder what effect an even farther distance might have, but that's not my biggest concern. For me it's pulling up stakes and leaving a home and neighborhood that I love, moving farther from my family, and if I'm emotionally ready for another big change right now. I'll have to talk to the wife about it eventually, because how it plays out will determine the timeline of dealing with the house, but right now, what my W thinks is taking a far back burner, because I have to decide if I am ok with this.