Shining - just realized that I botched my reply to you. Left my computer - then returned & must have just 'submitted' (got my own version of crazy grin ). Sorry about that . The change of heart (your h) is the 'fear factor' as mentioned - panic. I still think it was nice the way it turned out that day- 'loose possiblity' ... no expectations, but possibility relative to how it's played out.
Keep on shining, p.


pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017