Shining - just realized that I botched my reply to you. Left my computer - then returned & must have just 'submitted' (got my own version of crazy ). Sorry about that . The change of heart (your h) is the 'fear factor' as mentioned - panic. I still think it was nice the way it turned out that day- 'loose possiblity' ... no expectations, but possibility relative to how it's played out. Keep on shining, p.
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017