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You effectively said everything my MIL said to me today. She said forget the A and focus on yourself. Focus on being a great father, person, etc. And, do not bring up the A, do not bring up the $5K CC, etc. If my W wants to talk about it, she will. But forcing the issue will show me to be controlling, which is exactly what she said was one of the main issues. and she also agreed that while I am different and believe that I am different, it takes time to change the past. My wife wants a different live than the one she has now. My changes have been seen positively, but I need to sustain them longer (this is from my MIL). In fact, your advice and her advice are so similar I wonder if you are her. smile

I will post more later...I am BBQing some chickens and veggies (although my S7 will NEVER at the veggies).

Thanks again for your advice and support. It means the world to me.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed