Raine, I'm sitting here reading with my jaw dropped. Your insight is remarkable. I believe your impression of my H (guilt, care, fear of honesty and rejection) is spot on. I also believe my H doesn't want to be married, etc., and that his thoughts are very likely the same as your H describes when he was in MLC.
Thank you for your post, and please feel free to "highjack" anytime. I don't see it as a highjack, anyway. Any experience you have to share is a gift. .
M44, H44, both M before M4 yrs, T6 BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me H att suicide 2/14 S 4/14 OW disc 5/14 D final 4/15
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