^^ that makes complete sense to me, and I've thought my H feels the same way.

(Which is mind reading, for the most part, but based on what I've heard from him over the last couple months it seems pretty spot on.)

I do not envy the MLCer. What a sad way to live.


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5