-it sounds like your IC is crappy and not solutions based. You might want to think about switching to another IC who is supportive of you and your goals. -DO NOT move out of the house under any circumstances. It is W who is having a problem and should be the one to move out. Not you. -wearing a ring or not is a personal choice. A lot of the times the WAS wants to see the ring gone to assuage of their own guilt. It seems to me that you want to continue wearing your ring...then do it.
We've heard a lot of what your W said around here in DBland. Sorry to say ...but pretty much script.
I would suggest that you stop talking with your family and friends about your M. You would want the road back home paved smooth for your W and talking about your M to others just makes it harder for the WAS to come back home because they feel "betrayed" by the talks behind their backs.
