I'm going to take your advice. My plan is this, let's see how it works. Tomorrow he will likely contact me as he wants to come by my house to pick up some things. Even though this is a logistical thing I am not going to answer as I already told him last week that he could come by. I'm going to see how he reacts. Of course he can still come by, I am not stopping him so it is not a threat to the logistics or anyone's safety haha.
I feel a bit weird playing a game but I want to test out NC/no reply and see what happens.
I read something today that I thought was interesting: "Don't be so predictable! Your purpose is to convince him that events are swirling out of control and may take him in directions he has not anticipated. You would be wise to turn the whole thing upside down"
Thinking about how I can do that... other than start seeing someone new.
Have a great day! Hugs, Lisa B
Me: 34 H: 30 M: 4 years BD: 6/15/14 He moved out 6/30/14 OW1: EA then PA after BD Now he's dating multiple OWs I'm over it and moving on.
