"my wife is now suspicious of my motives & feels I'm trying to turn the kids against her! when she said that you could have knocked me down with a feather & I felt like saying 'no your doing a good job of that on your own' "
Can you blame her? You showed little interest in your kids' lives for YEARS and then ALL OF A SUDDEN you start showing interest. That is all your fault that she doesn't believe you. The WAS will not believe in the changes for awhile. You need to understand patience.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.