I sincerely don't think you are capable of change at all. That will entail dismantling all of your wrong headed notions about women. I sense that you really don't want to do that at all. It's best to set your wife free and give her the divorce she wants for she's 21-years old with a whole life ahead of her without some jerk pulling her down & stomping on her day in and day out.
What I am pegging you here is that you're an emotional abuser. You need help through a professional counselor.
