I know the grief process isn't always linear. It's best to unhitch your wagon from W's train wreck. Otherwise she'll bring you down as well. Not good if you are going to take care of yourself and DDs for a while.
You wrote:
Originally Posted By: Matt165
It doesn't help that she left when I needed her income more than I ever have in the last 20 years.
No, you don't. You can and WILL figure how to bring in extra income. It is all on HOW motivated you are in seeking new ways to bring in more income.
I don't need Ms. Wonka's income. I've done just fine without hers because I had to TAKE CARE OF MYSELF first and foremost. I networked my butt off!
