I have told her in the past that she does not know what I am capable of (when talking about trust). She seems to rehash this point a lot.

I did tell her that we both need to work on building trust again at some point - I'm sure she has lost trust in me when I have told her that I looked at her phone and such.

I chose not to say anything about what I thought it would take to build my trust in her again. I think it is way to early for that.

Thank you for the tip (I sure can use them). Now that moment is gone and I don't think I should try and talk any more about this today (not re-open the conversation).


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015