Stop her and tell her that she is not you and that she has no right to "assume" what you can or cannot do. Tell her that trust is something that is earned and you can trust her as long as she's honest with you. That you two can heal as long as the honesty is there. So that is up to her. Not you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
