25mlc, thanks for the comments. I have read most of DR but not DB. I have shared my situation with a few close friends and my waw has done the same. I have not done any campaign of exposure and I agree that it would not help anyone to do so. I have shared simply out of a need for support and a place to go instead of pursuing her.
Shodan's situation appears to have a better chance of survival than mine thankfully. So, I am hoping for the best but preparing for the worst. I have zero interest in any other women right now but it still feels good to get attention. My last remarks about younger or successful women were a cheap stab at a couple of my waw's insecurities combined with a poor attempt at humor.
Me: 45 W: 44 M: 20 T: 31 S 20, D 13
W affair ended 5-13-14 W confessed 5-27-14 W wants to R 4-1-15; I'm not sure Living in same house, separate beds