C'mon Gotan, you know better. Stop trying to control your W, and the OM. What do you think might come out of your confronting the OM? And how do you think your W will react?

Is there anything positive that could possibly come out of this? Accept that your life is no longer fully within in your control. Keep working on yourself, and detach.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace