Glad you decided not to move next door. Beside you seeing everything going on over there, she would be watching your place, too!
You are right, she would take advantage of you being so handy. It would be as if trying to live under the sane roof.
It is hard to explain the WAW. Her mind is so preoccupied with the A/OM until it consumes every area of her life. She is no longer the same person. I think I should warn you that when she finally comes out of this, she may not remember things correctly. Abd how could she? She is stumbling around in this bazaar new mindset that has no logic, takes no responsibility, is emotionally unbalanced, abd suffers severe memory loss of the true history with her H.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
