H and I have had conversations about things as they come up. I didn't go to him with a list of "I need to knows."

He is who he is today. Tomorrow may be different.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss