I can tell you from personnel experience that no matter how small it may seem to you, if she does not feel your support, it will cause a seed of resentment to start growing. She won't be the warm, sweet & loving girl you want b/c carrying that resentment around has made her bitter.
You said something about not choosing her over your family b/c the whole FB thing was silly. But now you have separated, so see where it can lead?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
